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It's Not About The School
Saturday, January 14, 2012   0 ♣

We all have our own "judgment day." But perhaps, for the high school seniors, it is the day when College Entrance Test results come out - the day when the agony of waiting comes to a close. Each has his or her own dream school and it is, without a doubt, hard to accept when you do not see your name in the list.

Today, ACET results were released and I have seen a lot of incoming college freshmen tweeting and posting a status on Facebook - ranting about failing. It kind of saddens me why they do so. Not getting accepted into your supposed "dream school" does not mean you are dumb or worthless. It may seem that it is the end of the world; but it is not. Sure, cry all you want but do not let a week pass grieving and dwelling on it so much. Come on, do not feel bad for so long. Chin up! Failure is only success delayed, my friend. Never ever doubt yourself or your capabilities. It only means that there are better and greater things in store for you. After all, "There's really no 'best university', only the 'best university for you.'" -- Overheard at the Ateneo de Manila Version 2.0

Let me share with you my own experience a year ago. I didn't get into my "dream school" which is the University of the Philippines Manila. Back then, my desire to become a doctor in the future was so strong. That is why when I found out I didn't pass UPCAT, I wept. I told myself, "This is what I get for applying for quota courses (BS Physical Therapy & BS Nursing) and for checking the Intarmed Program." I also felt numb - it is as if I have failed as a student and as a daughter. Surprisingly enough, my parents were very calm and understanding about the situation. I recall my mom telling me that it does not matter and my dad saying, "It's okay anak, I'm proud of you no matter what." And then it hit me, a CET result does not define who you are. It is how you cope with it.

A week after that, ACET results were released on January 15, 2011. I intentionally woke up late that Saturday, around 12 noon, for I was scared of the results. I hastily checked Ateneo's website and was overwhelmed when I saw my name on the list. I just sat in front of my laptop, crying for five whole minutes. My mom actually thought I failed because I was being so emotional. Right then and there, I realized that God is truly amazing for He never fails to provide. Afterwards, my mom told me, "I prayed that you get into the school where God wills you to be. And He did answer that prayer." I was stunned because I had also been praying if Medicine was really meant for me. Apparently, it is not for I am now taking up BS Management Information Systems (the course I applied in Ateneo) which wasn't really a part of my plan.

Having said that, I hope you learn something from this. There is still hope and there is a Big Guy up there who is currently at work in your life right now. It's about time you stop insisting your own plans for yourself; just let Him take control. And when you do, trust that you will be blessed abundantly. Here's the great news: He has big plans for you so turn that frown upside down. You are lucky enough to have the privilege of going to college while there are less-fortunate ones who do not even have the luxury to do so. Be thankful for that simple joy of getting a quality education because a lot of people would do anything - even die, I suppose - just to be in your position. Always bear in mind that "Negative people whine and positive people shine." Now, which person will you be? Choose wisely and just keep the faith alive!

UST, DLSU, AdMU, UP, UA&P, UE, UERM, FEU, NU, AdU, CEU, Enderun, GCCIC or whatever university may that be - it doesn't matter. College life is all the same.

P.S. Do not give up on yourself for God Himself never, ever, gives up on you. ☺


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